Order Book! My 80s Rock Music Memoir: Give Me Your Love - Playing with Fire in 1980s Argentina (book signed by author)

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Perfect for fans of rock history, coming-of-age memoirs, and high-stakes historical true stories. 

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Author Alex Demilo | Published April 26, 2026

My story as an American teenager in Argentina 1980s, a brutal military dictatorship, and an explosive rock band ‘Como’ that captivated everyone. 

At just seventeen, Alex Demilo is uprooted from his quiet Connecticut hometown and dropped into a high school 5,000 miles away in Argentina. He doesn’t speak a word of Spanish, but he has one burning obsession: start a rock band. 

Alex soon finds himself fronting a raw, new wave band in Buenos Aires—the wild nightlife playground for the young and rebellious. But beneath the smokey spotlights and midnight encores lies a terrifying reality. 

Without realizing it, Alex has stepped into the middle of "The Dirty War"—an era of state terror where paramilitary groups kidnap and "disappear" tens of thousands of citizens in absolute, repressive silence. 

Navigating whirlwind romances and midnight encores, clericó and underground discos, Alex faces everything from random military searches to a gun to his head. Refusing to back down, he rejects all expectations to chase his passion for music, love, and freedom in a place where tomorrow is never guaranteed. 

GIVE ME YOUR LOVE delivers a raw, analog, fast-paced memoir that captures the chaotic joy of living a truly bohemian rock-and-roll lifestyle at the edge of danger. 

Inside this extraordinary '80s ride, you’ll experience: 

  • The Highs: Passionate seductions, electrifying underground gigs, and the rush of heated performances.

  • The Lows: The haunting paranoia of a dictatorship, the shadow of secret detention centers, and narrow escapes from military raids.

  • And The 80s Atmosphere: A deeply nostalgic, sensory trip through the clericó-fueled, rule-breaking nightlife of 1980s Argentina. 

Perfect for fans of rock history, coming-of-age memoirs, and high-stakes historical true stories. 

FREE US SHIPPING | Paperback $24.99
Author Alex Demilo | Published April 26, 2026

My story as an American teenager in Argentina 1980s, a brutal military dictatorship, and an explosive rock band ‘Como’ that captivated everyone. 

At just seventeen, Alex Demilo is uprooted from his quiet Connecticut hometown and dropped into a high school 5,000 miles away in Argentina. He doesn’t speak a word of Spanish, but he has one burning obsession: start a rock band. 

Alex soon finds himself fronting a raw, new wave band in Buenos Aires—the wild nightlife playground for the young and rebellious. But beneath the smokey spotlights and midnight encores lies a terrifying reality. 

Without realizing it, Alex has stepped into the middle of "The Dirty War"—an era of state terror where paramilitary groups kidnap and "disappear" tens of thousands of citizens in absolute, repressive silence. 

Navigating whirlwind romances and midnight encores, clericó and underground discos, Alex faces everything from random military searches to a gun to his head. Refusing to back down, he rejects all expectations to chase his passion for music, love, and freedom in a place where tomorrow is never guaranteed. 

GIVE ME YOUR LOVE delivers a raw, analog, fast-paced memoir that captures the chaotic joy of living a truly bohemian rock-and-roll lifestyle at the edge of danger. 

Inside this extraordinary '80s ride, you’ll experience: 

  • The Highs: Passionate seductions, electrifying underground gigs, and the rush of heated performances.

  • The Lows: The haunting paranoia of a dictatorship, the shadow of secret detention centers, and narrow escapes from military raids.

  • And The 80s Atmosphere: A deeply nostalgic, sensory trip through the clericó-fueled, rule-breaking nightlife of 1980s Argentina. 

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“The New Wave Memoir I Didn't Know I'd Been Waiting for.” — Jessica J.

“Took me straight back to the 80s.” — Isabela

“Vivid and honest.” — Lauren

“Not what you’d think! More interesting than a bio, it’s a coming-of-age travel adventure.” — Greg

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Music by band Como (featured in book)

About the Musician/Author

Alex Demilo is an American born guitarist, vocalist, songwriter, and performer. He co-founded Como in Buenos Aires in 1985, and has also recorded and performed with his band Mirrors of Venus in Boston, San Francisco. He currently lives in Connecticut.

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